Polished but relaxed—dresses, button-downs, jackets, and stylish separates are all welcome.
We encourage guests to dress in formal attire—think elevated, festive, and Napa Valley chic. Midi or floor-length dresses, elegant sets, or dressy jumpsuits are perfect for women, while suits are great for men. Tuxedos are not required. In honor of the groom’s Texas roots, a touch of Texas flair is always welcome. The ceremony will take place on grass, and Napa Valley evenings can get chilly, so we recommend appropriate shoes and bringing a light layer.
St. Helena is a small town in Napa Valley with a variety of wonderful places to stay. We’ve included a few hotel recommendations below in St. Helena, Calistoga, and Yountville, all within a short drive of our wedding venue. Airbnb and VRBO options do exist in the area, though they can be somewhat limited. October is a beautiful and busy time in Napa Valley, so we encourage guests to book accommodations early.
Harvest Inn is a charming Napa Valley hotel set among vineyards just outside downtown St. Helena. The property features beautiful wine country grounds, cozy accommodations, and classic Napa Valley scenery. Located about a 5–6 minute drive from our wedding venue, it’s a wonderful option for guests looking for a relaxing and convenient place to stay during the weekend.
A luxury vineyard resort just outside downtown St. Helena with sweeping vineyard views and beautifully designed rooms. Alila offers a relaxed wine country atmosphere and is located about 7–8 minutes from our wedding venue.
Le Petit Pali St. Helena is a charming boutique hotel nestled along Silverado Trail, offering a cozy and elevated wine country experience in the heart of Napa Valley. With its thoughtfully designed rooms, warm hospitality, and complimentary amenities like daily breakfast and afternoon wine tastings, it’s the perfect place to relax and unwind for the weekend.
Located just about a 10-minute drive from our wedding venue, it’s an incredibly convenient option for guests who want to stay close to the celebration while enjoying the beauty and tranquility of St. Helena.
Four Seasons Napa Valley is a beautiful luxury resort set within a working vineyard in Calistoga. The property offers elegant accommodations, vineyard views, exceptional dining, and a tranquil spa experience. Located about a 15–20 minute drive from our wedding venue, it’s a great option for guests looking for a refined and elevated Napa Valley stay.
Calistoga Motor Lodge & Spa is a stylish boutique hotel inspired by the classic American road-trip era, featuring retro-inspired rooms and a relaxed wine-country atmosphere. The property offers two mineral hot spring pools, a full-service spa, and on-site dining, making it a great place to unwind after exploring Napa Valley. Located in the heart of Calistoga, it’s about a 15–20 minute drive from our wedding venue and a fun option for guests looking to enjoy Calistoga’s charming downtown, wineries, and spa culture.
Estate Yountville is a beautiful wine country resort located in the heart of Yountville, within walking distance of many of Napa Valley’s renowned restaurants and tasting rooms. Located about a 20 minute drive from our wedding venue, it’s a wonderful option for guests who want to enjoy the walkable town of Yountville while visiting Napa Valley.
A charming retro-style motel located on Main Street in St. Helena. El Bonita offers comfortable rooms, a pool and hot tub, and complimentary breakfast. It’s a great option for guests looking for a more budget-friendly stay, located about 7–8 minutes from our wedding venue.
Southbridge Napa Valley is a boutique hotel located in the heart of St. Helena, within walking distance of shops, restaurants, and tasting rooms. It’s about a 6–7 minute drive from our wedding venue, making it a convenient and comfortable option for guests visiting Napa Valley.
Best Western Plus Stevenson Manor is located in downtown Calistoga within walking distance of shops, restaurants, and tasting rooms. It’s about a 15–20 minute drive from our wedding venue and a comfortable, more affordable option for guests visiting Napa Valley.
Napa Valley has so many wonderful places to explore. Below are a few of our favorite wineries, restaurants, and spots around St. Helena if you’d like to make a weekend of it.
A Napa Valley classic for burgers, fries, and milkshakes. Don’t miss the secret menu mini corn dogs — one of Julia’s personal favorites.
One of the first places Julia took Charlie and his mom, Kelli, on her first trip to Napa. A hot dog and root beer float here are hard to beat.
Pro tip: take a walk down nearby Yount Mill Road after — you might spot the Texas longhorns grazing in the fields.
A Napa Valley staple famous for its English muffins (even Oprah agrees). Perfect for coffee and breakfast before exploring.
A charming wine country market with great sandwiches, picnic supplies, and local wine — perfect for a casual lunch or snack between tastings.
Julia’s family winery and a very special place to us. Whitehall Lane has been family-owned for over 40 years and is known for its Cabernet Sauvignon and beautiful vineyard views. If you’re planning a tasting while in Napa, we’d love for you to visit